Are you Gay? Time to fess up...

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Camp as a row of tents!
No just kidding. but plenty of affluent knobs I went through undergrad.

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These guys are great but just not Spandau Ballet!

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Then you probably caught it off him!

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I'm told you must wear a condom if you sleep with a woman over 60 years old or you might catch osteoporosis. (off topic)

I don't think I even know anyone who's gay, is gayness a myth ?

Ellen Degeneres gives me the creeps.

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just wondering what difference between a gay couple and the others, if any ?
each and every relationship needs the same thing, trust, honesty, respect and love....and when it breaks down, there is still a separation of assets, whether its between a man and a woman, two men, or two women....is there any difference ?...all emotionally disabled by the process..

Burnsie, most of us know you are recently divorced....on a scale of 1-10...divorce is up there equivalent to the death of a loved one....so maybe you could do with a little help from a good professional to get you through...if you have not already had some help...

I walked away from an unhealthy relationship over 30 years ago, I never looked back...I could not get out fast enough....
the partner on the other hand, suffered emotionally for several years...until they received some good counselling....and then finally got their life in order and moved on....now happily married again....
A lot of women today are still looking for another partner, some are more discerning than the first time, others still making the same mistake of just needing a man in their life.
Me I love my single life, answer to no-one but myself, freedom to do whatever I like , and whenever...not too many around like myself....but I do have a lot of friends in the same situation (but think secretly, they would prefer to be in a relationship).......
still see others out there looking for a mate, some times I think they are only conditioned to believe everyone has a partner, or should have a partner and may feel uncomfortable around friends who do have partners.....

would you do anything differently next time around ??
oh and expect the divorce rate to soar, there will be a lot of blame games going on with the GFC mess, already heard about cases of middle income families splitting, he lost his job or business, could not handle the stress, and wife and kids move out, or he moves out.....some professional help should be sought in times of crisis.....
ps just hoping this might help, studied behavourial studies and sociology as elective studies many years ago...in fact it was due to those studies that enabled me to make some major changes to my life, take control again, try to divert a divorce, but in the end changed my whole life...for the better.
PS the books studied were not mainstream popular ones in the books shops today...like divorce for dummies etc...gave away my extensive library when I made the big move..

we may have some professionals on this site that may have some better advice for anyone in similar situations.

Mr Burns, Kincella makes some good points about recovery following divorce, especially after a long marriage. A counsellor/psychologist would almost certainly help.

Btw to suggest to gay people that they have any need to 'fess up' is rather insulting and patronising. Their sexual preference isn't something about which they should feel ashamed. Just their choice.

thanks Julia...he might have to ask around or ask friends for a referral, my partner's first counsellor spent a year giving the partner false hopes of reviving the marriage...the counsellor never spoke to me or requested a meeting to hear my side...I was out of there, had spent several years trying to save the marriage...
truthfully, I should never have married in the first place, it was not on my agenda for my life....just felt coerced into it....the other partner was very dependent on me ....but once married I tried my hardest to make it work....it had the appearance of a happy family....but I was not happy....
I know it was my fault...and I took full responsibility for the unhappiness I caused to all....
ps we are still friends, but thats all we ever were in the first place, we are not 'good' friends nor 'close' friends....just friends....or friendly towards each other, we do not socialise together, we are worlds apart....
the former partner has qualities I admire in a person, but also things I do not admire...
not dissimilar to a friendly neighbour...we agree about some things....and other things, we agree to disagree about.
cheers

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Ok, I'll confess. "I love you McBarker"

Julia said:

Mr Burns, Kincella makes some good points about recovery following divorce, especially after a long marriage. A counsellor/psychologist would almost certainly help.

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I'm ok, thanks, and kincella I am consulting someone a Mr Martin, Mr Remy Martin always feel good after consulting with him.

Btw to suggest to gay people that they have any need to 'fess up' is rather insulting and patronising. Their sexual preference isn't something about which they should feel ashamed. Just their choice.

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Yeah ok Julia point taken and my marriage proposal is hereby withdrawn

alcohol can make you feel depressed the next day...or depressed to begin with...hence the drinking....
suggest you find a real counsellor...and give MR Martin the boot
anyone have some good books they could recommend for Burnsie ?
or a good counsellor

kincella said:

alcohol can make you feel depressed the next day...or depressed to begin with...hence the drinking....
suggest you find a real counsellor...and give MR Martin the boot
anyone have some good books they could recommend for Burnsie ?
or a good counsellor

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Hey I'm fine really, off to Hawaii in July, life's good

MrBurns said:

Hey I'm fine really, off to Hawaii in July, life's good

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I'll fess up mr burns , I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body , don't tell my wife.

Are you sure you are going to Hawaii , I went there and thought I was in Japan. Maui Island was good thou , I must admit , away from all the touristy stuff.

Any self-sexuals out there ? don't know any personally but there seems to be many pluses :-

They never get a knock back , can start & finnish when ever.
Very safe .
Cost effective ~ booking restaurants for one .
Few arguments .
Can share the latest self indulgence techniques on line , like the sleeper !
apparently they sit on there hand till it goes numb , you get the picture ?

Well,

I slept with a lot guys over a 20 odd year period and let me tell you after sleeping with sweaty, crusty guys who have not showered for days on end, mixed in with cordite flavoured farts (Ahh I love the smell of cordite in the morning) this well and truly kept me on the "straight" and narrow.

For those that have had a protected life, cordite is an explosive compound used in charge bags to propel artillery rounds down range.

It also makes you appreciate your sweet smelling and tender skinned wife a hell of a lot more.....

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I slept with a lot guys over a 20 odd year period and let me tell you after sleeping with sweaty, crusty guys who have not showered for days on end, mixed in with cordite flavoured farts (Ahh I love the smell of cordite in the morning) this well and truly kept me on the "straight" and narrow.

For those that have had a protected life, cordite is an explosive compound used in charge bags to propel artillery rounds down range.

It also makes you appreciate your sweet smelling and tender skinned wife a hell of a lot more.....

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Nothing worse than 2 up under a hootchie and ya mate had the curry power with rice an sweet chilli sauce. This particular exercise he wondered why i volunteered to get up every morning an get a brew goin.

And all this was in JLy at Cunungra and those of you who have been there know it aint pleasant early mornings when the steam is rising from the river round the jump tower and the bearpit is iced over cos its -3.

UBIQUE

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It also makes you appreciate your sweet smelling and tender skinned wife a hell of a lot more.....

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A gay guy might think the same thing about his partner :.

Geezers why do most use the word Gay , it used to mean a girls name or a happy feeling , the correct terminology is homosexual , many use the words poofter & dyke , also the term pillow bitter is used .

Will a homosexual comment please

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GumbyLearner said:

Camp as a row of tents!
No just kidding. but plenty of affluent knobs I went through undergrad.

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What's an "affluent knob"? Is it a phallic thing?

MrBurns said:

and my marriage proposal is hereby withdrawn

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Damn! What an opportunity lost!

Julia said:

Damn! What an opportunity lost!

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Yes you just passed up a life of cleaning, cooking and servitude