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No Ordinary Duck
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So what you're saying is that people shouldn't have bodily autonomy, and must live in case it upsets you or someone else? That's pretty selfish.
In either case, if mental illness is involved you can't ascribe their actions to a rational thought process.
Back on topic -- people are just scared of what they don't understand. Generally they won't seek better understanding, and often even after correcting their understanding their fears will remain.
Well put. he had no history of mental illness.
He would have been more help to the family by admitting he stuffed up, restarting and doing his best as a husband and father to his 6 year old boy... that would have been the gutsy route.
Instead he caused additional psychological damage to his family and left them having to deal with his burial. ... just because he lost some pride. As I said selfish.
We're all brought up differently with different beliefs and values that evolve over time. We can't imagine what that individual felt at the time, how much help they did or didn't receive...To comment on it really doesn't serve anyone any good but ourselves....
To comment on it really doesn't serve anyone any good but ourselves
So true. The school of hard knocks have many been to.Strange as it may seem ---I actually welcome challenging times.
I've learnt more overcoming adversity than bathing in the sun of success.
I have someone very close to me who suffers from depression. Total and utter hopelessness. When in a "normal" state of mind he is a completely different person to when the depression completely overtakes and overwhelms him. I have personally seen a transformation that scares me. It can't be taken lightly.
I used to be of the view of "suck it up" when people took and easy option. Now I tend to think that most times people will take a "cop out", but also sometimes it can be beyond a level that can be understood by most.
And I would like to say that I find it hard to believe that anyone actually "understand" the stock market;
I would say I managed to learn most of the mecanisms involved, I know the theorical knowledge between bond and market, gold, inflation, options, etc
yet as everyone, I can not judge mass reaction (the psychological aspect of the market) nor do I know in advance what the RBA next move will be;
Posteriory, I can give an explanation of why this or that happens, you find pages of "business news" doing that but the truth is:
in the stock market, at least on the short or medium term, the same inputs may give you two very different outcomes.
If anyone was "understanding" the stock market fully, he/she would be billionaire very quickly
So you 9and I) manage risk, value, or even TA to put more odds on your side, limit risk leverage gain etc but the unknown remains.
While fully involved, I do understand the reluctance of most to jump in;
It is not a casino(you and I know it: we are here and "aware"), but for most, this is what it will still look like.
I don't think that when people say they "Understand" the market, that they are claiming to know everything that will happen.
eg, Some one can say they understand the rugby league, that doesn't mean they are claiming to know the outcome of every game before it happens.
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The fact that a lot of people see it as a casino is unfortunate,
... The fact that a lot of people see it as a casino is unfortunate,
Problems affecting the mind are every bit as real an illness as a broken leg, cancer or heart attack. Practically everyone is a potential victim under the right circumstances
Most people have a very limited understanding of any given subject, that being an inevitable consequence of living in an increasingly complex world.
We're living in a world where most people understand very little of what goes on around them and that trend continues to increase.
And I would like to say that I find it hard to believe that anyone actually "understand" the stock market;
I disagree on the casino analogy:
I bet but I manage my risks I can not go to the roulette and p;ay $200 on red yet take an insurance to cover part of my losses if I loose; options allows that on the share market
But I agree that more than ever before (or at least more than ever since I was a teenager, markets have a huge volatility
What a pessimistic outlook. Every day we have examples of ordinary people doing good things. Concerned individuals who look out for others. Scientists who make life saving discoveries. I believe most people are fundamentally well motivated. Beliefs such as you have expressed above, if held by enough of the population, have the capacity to be self-fulfilling. If you constantly, e.g. tell indigenous people that they will never make anything of themselves, that their destiny is to fail, then that is what will happen.Nah, man is pretty much doomed in the long term
Not necessarily. Sometimes it's the only answer, in the absence of good end of life legislation, and is a completely rational choice, allowing the individual an escape from pain that they find intolerable, whether physical or psychological.Suicide is tragic,
This is to assume the 'cause' is as simplistic as stated originally. Almost certainly all sorts of other stuff will have been going on in that person's life. The loss of money of itself, in an otherwise well adjusted individual, imo would be unlikely to cause suicide.especially when "caused" by a mistaken belief that losing ones material wealth makes you a failure! .... The failure is actually in the belief that material wealth even mattered in the first place
If attributing blame to yourself serves some purpose for you, then I guess you know best about that.Peer pressure is the cause of many suicides ... rather than have the gal to judge some poor soul for feeling the ultimate pressure to terminate their existence, we should perhaps feel guilt that our own misguided sense of self worth may have actually contributed to their decision!! (and I include myself in that summation)
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