Great post.
I tend to compare myself to others quite often. Someone made x amount on this stock and y on that stock.
Why cannot I be like so and so...they have good track record...or do they?
I wasn't going to mention any names, but for the sake of an example here goes...
Trade4profit is admired by many, and me as well, for his skill at picking stocks and making huge profits. That said he has made some spectalular losses too. JPR comes to mind where he admitted losing about $200,000. How could this happen? Considering he is so skilled at entry and exit points, predicting stock values and share price. What happened to his stop loss?
So while his gains might be massive, his losses might be massive too.
Of course we have no way of confirming details, only by going about what members say in discussion boards.
Do I want to have his winning stocks picks of course, but I certainly would not want to wear his losses either.
I am sure we all have massive gains on some stocks and massive losses on others. So I am not finger point, just giving an example.
Comparing can equally be good as it is bad.