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Perhaps not, but I don't see a negotiation process (which we have yet to begin) as something which has to exclude pleasant human interaction, and of necessity needs to be aggressive.
There is, to use an old cliche, more than one way to skin a cat.
Different negotiating styles may equally achieve the desired end result.
And I am actually genuinely interested in why people do what they do and how they like/dislike their work.
And clearly you wear the label of being a bastard toward the salesperson with pride. I usually find it's possible to get what I want without being oh so tough.
Oh I'm generally not el bastardo when I negotiate, when you get aggressive people tend to get defensive, it's a tactic but I'll only use it in very specific circumstances. I just said my wife calls me a bastard because she knows what I am doing when I use my Jedi mind tricks against the salespeople.
Good Lord no, just trying to share some hopefully helpful hints - obviously your Grandmother knows how to suck eggs and I'll stop talking about it now. Sorry if I offended.I do not need to buy a car. Several posters on this thread clearly think I'm nuts to be considering it, given the low kms, carting around of dog etc. And they're quite right.
The car salespeople are equally aware of this and I'm quite sure they realise unless I'm happy with what is ultimately offered I'll simply walk away.
I'm quite sure you don't mean to be either sexist or patronising, Sir O, something - incidentally - I've not experienced at all from either BMW or Mazda.
I've always said that sales plays a heavy role in the Financial Services Industry, but I only use my Jedi mind tricks for good (or to get my wife stuff she wants).I'm having a bit of a smile at you, the caring financial planner/adviser, making clear the role sales technique plays in your own industry.![]()
Cheers
Sir O