It hasnt with Zinifex and I am now wondering why I bothered with marriage.
Last year my son left home to study in a capital city, then my old dog died,
my father went mad with dementia after helping my mother with him for some years and the family had him admitted to full care. Then I had a health check , as you do when you reach 55 yrs, and discovered I had a 60% blocked artery which needed a stent. While recovering I found out my wife had been having an affair for the last 4 yrs. If this sounds like whinging and whining I apologise, unfortunately you cant discuss this sort of stuff with people you are connected with because it tends to be seen to be attempting to bring people on side. So I decided to put this issue on the table for any one interested in commenting. The dilemma is that what is lost and hard to restore is trust.
This continues (after 6 mths of working at my own thinking,) to be the stumbling block. Little things that led me to become suspicious like the mobile phone that was never visible and kept close at hand 24/7 and indifference are behaviours that seem to be creeping back. Message history is now continually deleted, and I am told it happened due to error. Deleting message history is a convoluted process. Am I going mad?
I am interested in views on this. Please ask questions if you like , I will be happy to fill you in. Perhaps someone has been through this.